Every
writer tries his or her best for the best work. They know how hard they have
worked and nobody likes to experience
rejection. The sad part is that it is the truth of life. We all face rejection
in some form, at some part in our life. It really hurts to get denied or
eliminated. It depends on an individual how to handle this rejection. It surely
hurts, but it gives a new viewpoint as well.
It
is very joyous to get accepted by others, when the decision of choice is in the
hands of other people. It is very prestigious to get appreciation from others
for the work. Affirmations are great to experience. Sometimes rejections make
us aware of our weakness, and if immediately worked on, we can get desirable
results. Confirmations are always welcome, our true personality can be revealed
during the times of rejection.
Rejection
has its own benefits. It educates us about our work, our skills, where we lack
and where we stand strong. This is a very effective revelation. Those who are
not able to handle the rejection and respond in complete negation can ruin
their lives. Initially, it is very hurtful. It takes time to accept the rejection
of our writing, but to rise again to succeed is the best response to rejection.
If
you are a writer, you are more sensitive towards things than other people. As a
writer, you must know that you are bound to face rejection initially. You will
have to face a lot of rejections. Regrettably, rejection is believed by some
people as an evidence that anything that they do or want is wrong, they are not
made to write, it is a task for others, or they are unworthy of acquiring their
desires. These are natural responses after rejection. The great part about it
is that you need to fight through them and rise above it. It is natural to feel
insecure or unworthy after a rejection. The hurt from the rejection explains the
sharp agony that is felt at the time of rejection; the lasting effects that are
both bodily and mentally, but the responses and results are in our hands.
Rejection does not rule our life, our responses do affect our lives. Rejection
is not something to be taken lightly, but you can work on it. You can see where
your writing is proving to be weak. You can start reading more and studying
towards your betterment.
Rejection
is not biased and it has created worse consequences in the lives of numerous people
in spite of age, gender, social status and ethnicity. It is particularly hurtful
when the quality of your writing is questioned. When a writer is too confident
about the work, then in such cases, rejection could be damaging. The pain of
rejection will make the writer insecure and lessen the confidence levels. The
writer can become self-doubting. This is healthy up to some extent, and you can
come up with your masterpiece during such times. But these feelings must not
become your obsession and they must pass away with time. The pain of rejection can
begin the depressive feelings in a writer, it paralyzes our creative skills. During
such times solace and self discovering process can help you to handle the rough
times. These testing times are not forever. Facing them with strength is the
best way to respond it. Good learning bends and observation can help you to
cultivate your writing skills more effectively and you can generate your masterpiece
before the people who once rejected it.
Rejection
has stages that every individual goes through: it is a denial of incidence,
anger towards the situation, beginning with your feelings, depression and
submission to the situation, and lastly comes the acceptance. The trick is to
get to the last part of rejection process as quickly as possible, as it is the way to get free from
the pain of rejection.
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